Stop trying to change him

There is only one thing worse than a woman who meets a man and decides he will do because she can “change” him and that is a woman who settles for a man that she does not particular feel attracted to because she believes she can “change” him into what she wants!

Why do we keep doing that to ourselves? It really is time to stop and look at what you are doing.

Firstly, you will hit real barriers trying to change any man – even if he willingly comes along at first – eventually he will get sick and tired of you telling him to wear this instead of that and to buy that one instead of this one!  Most men are flexible and happy to go along with what will keep you happy but constantly telling him (even subconciously) that he is not good enough by changing everything he does is unfair.

I am not just talking about changing his hair or changing his clothes, some women want to go as far as for him to change his friends, or stop doing some of the things he used to do when he was single. WHY? Be strong enough to allow him to have his life and you develop a life for yourself too, have your own interests and allow him to be him – ultimately it works out so much better!