Is 2010 your year to find a man?

As we end 2009 I can’t not stop and ask a question about your goals for 2010 as it relates to finding a man or at least getting back into the dating scene.

As a single woman or single mother what are your plans when it comes to dating and in particular online dating? Will you be joining any particular online dating site or are you happy to leave it to circumstance and fate and see who comes along in 2010?

I went through an experience of finding men on online dating sites who were happy just to invite you to their place for a meal – no more dating and going out  – it’s straight to their house for dinner and expected sex. Not my thing really. If a man doesn’t want to spend some money on a date I see that as a huge flaw!

There was a time when cooking for a woman was considered quite romantic and it could lead on to other things but it usually happened after dating for a while. Now I guess we just want everything faster – why wait!

Are you ready to find a man in 2010?